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Friday, April 26, 2013

We worked, we laughed, we had lots of fun!

A crafter's poem....

Crafters are a funny bunch,
We'd rather craft than eat our lunch.
The housework, it can always wait.
It will be there on some other date.
No craft is left to be untried,
No creative thought to be denied.
Craft supplies - they're everywhere!
We're never caught without a spare.
Can our time be better spent,
Than practicing our creative bent?
Let it be said when we are done,
We worked, we laughed, we had lots of fun.
                                           by Debbie Garrett


My girlfriends and I all get together once a month, meeting at alternating houses, to craft.
At least, that's what we tell our families.
It's actually therapy for the soul - a little crafting mixed with a little wine and martinis and a lot of chatting. It's a great recipe for keeping our youth.

That's what Jane Fonda recently said when asked how she stays so young, "To stay young at heart, you have to have love in your life," Jane told People magazine. "For me, it's my women friends. They put starch in my spine and make me happy," she said. http://video.lycos.com/news/view/jane-fonda-friends-keep-me-youthful-77415/

We love our little group so much we named ourselves "Crafting Sistas'." And for me, nothing interferes with Craft Night.
Last night was April's Craft Night, and because our dear friend who was scheduled to host April's outing was unable to do so, I hosted it. I almost always "pin" our crafting results onto my Pinterest board, but this time I'm also blogging about it. It's another simple project that requires very little investment.

Frosted Mason Jars



You will need...


... A clean and dry mason jar. We had jelly jars, spaghetti jars, asparagus jars, etc. Any jar will do as long as it's clean and dry.
You'll also need:
Elmer's glue or Mod Podge, small paper cup, paint brush, acrylic paint of your choice, water and some kind of drop cloth.


To begin, put about a tablespoon of glue or Mod Podge into the paper cup and then add about a tablespoon of water. Mix well, then add your paint -- just a few drops. Mix well. It will be very runny.
 

Begin painting the mixture onto the outside of the jar. Be sure to lay out a drop cloth of some kind, because the mixture is very runny. The jar pictured took only one dip of the paint mixture using one of those sponge paint brushes. It takes very, very little. Remember to paint the bottom of the jar, also. When done, turn the jar over to dry.

That's it!
How easy is that?
 
 
Paint a few more jars.
Put a candle inside (best to use one of those new-fangled, battery-powered candles), tie a ribbon or raffia around the top and you have yourself a beautiful new centerpiece. We put handles on ours by wrapping wire around the rim and across the top.

Here's some important information to remember: The outside of these beautiful jars cannot get wet. The coating will wash right off -- which is actually a good thing if you're not happy with it and want to start over.


You can also coat your jars with just the glue/water mixture (no paint). Or you can add some colored tissue paper, then put another coat of the glue/water mixture on the outside of the jar.
I  made one with yellow and red tissue paper circles decoupaged onto the jar and another with strips of white tissue paper decoupaged onto the jar to make a Halloween ghost. After that one dried, I painted on black circles for the eyes and mouth and added ribbon to the top.

The ideas are limitless.

Much like my time crafting and creating, I value my friendships with those of like minds, hopes and dreams. My Sistas' have had my back for many years, never proving it more than during these past few months.

Enjoy and be the blessing.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

I have one just like that!

Isn't it a riot when someone says, "I have one just like that -- but it's different."?
I crack up every time I hear it.
But today, while browsing at Sams' Club, I saw something that made me say (in my head), "I have something just like that."

In all honesty, it's not even close.

What I saw was a wire basket-type container that had three little clay pots sitting in it and three herbs growing in the pots. Very, very cute.
What I actually have is a project that my father and I made together when he was in nursing home care because of Alzheimer's disease. As I've mentioned, the best way to keep him happy was to keep him busy and feeling needed. I would take projects with me when I'd go to the nursing home - which was every day - and say, "Daddy, I need your help with something I'm working on. Do you have time?"
And he'd always say, "Let me check with the boss."
Then he'd walk over to the nurse's station and ask them if they needed him for anything. They'd reply, "Not now. "
And he'd answer back, "Well then, it's quitting time."
Then we'd go to his room and set up our temporary painting studio.
I can't even remember all the things we made together: many painted clay pot projects, holiday ornaments and pins made from tongue depressors, pink flamingo ornaments made from bells and pipe cleaners, letter holders made from paper plates, and so much more.
I made the best of the time we had together. It was the only way to cope.

So when I saw the three clay pots at Sam's Club, it reminded me of the three pots Dad and I painted, even though they are not even remotely alike. And I thought I'd show you how to make them.
When I returned home, I rummaged through the shelves in my garage until I found the remaining painted pots. We had made several sets, some using the smaller 4-inch pots and some using the larger 5-inch pots. I've had them for about 12-years, and when I thought of them while at Sam's Club, I decided to buy some small plants and re-pot them.


They're cute, aren't they? Obviously one is a bumble bee, one a frog and the other is a ladybug.
They'd be fun to make this summer with your children and grandchildren.

To make them, you need the following supplies: red, black, yellow, white, light green, dark green and pink acrylic paints (craft paint), three clay pots (you decide the size) and the partner trays, three 4-inch wooden hearts, two 1-inch wooden disks, three wooden dowels or picks, masking or painter's tape, hot glue gun, thin black marker and paint brushes.

For the Ladybug:

Begin by painting one clay pot, one clay tray and the front and back of one wooden heart with red paint. Paint both sides of one wooden disk with black paint. Set all pieces aside to dry. You may want to paint a second coat.

Once dry, mark where you'd like your black dots to go on the pot and then paint the ladybug's black dots, approximately one-inch in diameter, on to the pot. If you'd like, you can paint the word "ladybug" across the top of the pot. You see I did that on the smaller pot, but my father did not do that to his.

Set aside to dry and begin painting the ladybug made from the wooden heart that's been painted red on both sides.

Using this image as an example, decide where you'd like your ladybug's spots to go on the red painted wooden heart and paint them on using the black paint and a 1/4-inch paint brush. Using the thin black marker, outline the shape of the wooden heart in a squiggly line about an eighth of an inch in from the edge, and then do the same down the middle of the red heart.
On the black wooden disk, paint two little white ovals, then paint two black dots for the eyes.
When dry, hot glue the ladybug's head to the bottom (pointed end) of the wooden heart.
Attach the wooden pick or thin wooden dowel to the back of the ladybug using hot glue. Remember to make the pick long enough to insert into the dirt when pot is planted.

Okay your Ladybug pot is finished.

Now on to the Bumble Bee:

Begin by painting one clay pot, one clay tray and both sides of one wooden disk with yellow paint. Paint both sides of a wooden heart with white paint. Set all pieces aside to dry. You may want to paint a second coat.

Once dry, you will paint three stripes around the yellow pot using black paint. You can mark your stripes using the painter's tape, or you can paint them freehand. I painted mine (and so did my dad) freehand.

Set aside to dry and begin painting the bumble bee made from the wooden heart that's been painted white on both sides.

Using this image as an example:
Begin with the wooden disk that's been painted yellow and using the thin black marker, draw two circles for the cheeks, a smile that is connected at both cheeks and a dimple in the chin. Paint the cheeks pink and paint a tiny pink dot in the middle for a nose. Paint two black dots for the eyes and set aside to dry. When dry, paint a tiny white dot inside each black eye and a tiny white dot inside each pink cheek.
When all is dry, hot glue the bumble bee's head to the top of the wooden heart.
Now you'll begin to paint the bumble bee's body. Using the thin black marker and the example above, draw on the white wooden heart the shape of the bee's body, and then paint it yellow.
When completely dry, paint black stripes on the bumble bee's body.
When completely dry and using the thin black marker, draw tiny lines coming out of the black stripes. Then also using the thin black marker, outline the edge of the wooden heart with a thin squiggly line.
Attach the wooden pick or thin wooden dowel to the back of the bumble bee using hot glue. Remember to make the pick long enough to insert into the dirt when pot is planted.

You have finished making your Bumble Bee pot.

Now the frog:

Begin by painting one clay pot, one clay tray and the front and back of one wooden heart with the lighter green paint. Set all pieces aside to dry. You may want to paint a second coat.


The frog's feet are painted at the bottom of the lighter green pot. Using the darker green paint, paint on two one-inch circles and let dry completely.

When completely dry, paint three tiny little white dots onto the darker green spots. That's the frog's "toes." If you'd like, you can paint the word "ribbet" across the top of the pot.

Using this image as an example:
Begin with the wooden heart that's been painted the lighter green. Decide where you'd like the division between the frog's eyes and chin to be and paint that curved line using a 1/4-inch brush and the darker green paint. Using the same brush and darker green paint, paint three-quarters of the way around the rounded parts of the heart. This will form the spacing for the eyes. Decide where you'd like the frog's freckles to go and still using the darker green paint, paint on three dots to be his freckles. Using pink, paint on two dots that are a little larger than the freckle dots for the frog's cheeks. Using white and using the example shown above, paint on the frog's eyes. When completely dry, paint a black dot inside each of the two white eyes. And when completely dry, put a white dot inside each black eye, three tiny white dots in each of the pink cheeks and three tiny little white dots inside each of the three freckles.
Attach the wooden pick or thin wooden dowel to the back of the frog using hot glue. Remember to make the pick long enough to insert into the dirt when pot is planted.

Now you have three of the absolute cutest pots known to mankind.

I'm still amazed with how such a simple sighting can bring back such wonderful memories. Those potted plants I saw in Sam's Club weren't anything at all like the ones my father and I made together, yet it is that sighting that sparked the fire that drove me to dig those projects out of the darkness of my garage and into the light of my kitchen - and write tonight's blog post.
Although my father was in the midst of this horrible disease known as Alzheimer's, and we were all in the middle of our painful and long goodbye, we made the best of those times.

I miss you, Daddy and love you with all my heart.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Be the blessing

Lecture:
One thing I've learned through this process of loss and loneliness -- there aren't many people who really want to hear about it. In other words, those who are willing to help you through to the brighter side are few and far between, whether it's your friends or members of your own family.

In the beginning everyone says, "If you need anything, call." Or, "If you ever need to talk about it, I'm here for you." But you're in such an overwhelming place at that time, all you want is to be alone. Later, though, when you're ready to talk about things, when you do realize that it's going to take the help of others to dig you out of your hole, not many - if any - of them are there for you.

Maybe it's because they don't know what to say. Maybe it's because you've overstayed your "welcome." Maybe it's because they are going through their own thing and really can't bear to hear about yours. And maybe it's because they can't and probably never will understand the loving relationship you had with the one who passed.

Some of my friends are of the belief that there's been enough time since Mother passed that I should be "over it," should have "moved on with my life" by now. So, I find myself traveling in some new territory; me wanting to be patient with them, while I'm wishing they would be patient with me. How's that for a twist?

So, in conclusion -- if there is someone you love going through the loss of a loved one, or going through anything that is diifficult to master on their own, figure out how to help and truly be there for them. Don't let them dig deep into an abyss of loneliness. Don't take "No" for an answer from them. Be persistent, be the friend they need, be the blessing.
(Full disclosure: One very good friend did spend several hours with me the other evening, and for that I am eternally grateful.)

Lecture over.

On the lighter side of my own hole, I've been longing for my mother to come to me in my dreams. While I've had dreams about her, and she's been present in them, I've not actually seen her. That, in and of itself, has caused me great pause.

But, last night, she was there. I don't remember what the dream was even about or if there was an actual story to the dream -- but I do know that she finally came to me and held me, and I held her and I kissed her over and over again.

I sure needed that.

Ahhh!

My journey is far from over, but Mother visiting me last night put me in a much more peaceful place today.

Ahhh!